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This section is intended to honor the memory of former colleagues who are no longer with us.   They are usually kindly submitted by family and friends, and we urge the families of our former colleagues to assist us in including their loved ones in our Hall of Fame.  As you will see, family members have also kindly provided us with photos.   

 

Sgt Gregory Grimes

 

 

Sergeant Gregory "Greg" Grimes
 

 

We were deeply saddened to hear the tragic news that our good friend Sergeant Gregory Grimes passed away suddenly on 14th December 2016 whilst on duty.

Greg was an exceptionally popular policeman  who always took the time to mentor younger police officers.  We know that many of our more recently retired members will have fond memories of working with Greg, who in 2009 was chosen as “Police Officer of the Year and Sergeant of the Year”

 

 On 15th December 2016,  we received the  following statement regarding Greg's passing:-

"The Bermuda Police Service (BPS) regrets to announce the death of Sergeant Gregory MacArthur Grimes. Sergeant Grimes passed away in the early hours of Thursday morning following a medical emergency on Wednesday afternoon in which several police colleagues came to his aid. Commissioner of Police, Mr. Michael DeSilva, said: “This comes as tragic and difficult news for many of us who knew him well. Greg was highly respected and admired, and he touched the hearts of so many of our officers and support staff. He was regarded as an exemplary and compassionate supervisor who cared deeply about his colleagues, and he had a passion about policing and his community. We are all stunned by the loss of Greg and we have activated welfare and support services for any of our staff that might need them. On behalf of the officers and staff of the Bermuda Police Service and the Bermuda Reserve Police, I offer our sincere condolences to Greg's family and friends who are in our thoughts and prayers at this most difficult time. He will be intensely missed.”

Sergeant Grimes joined the BPS as a police cadet in August 1978. He was promoted to sergeant in April 1991 and he served in a variety of posts including uniform, CID, and Special Branch. More recently, he held the post of lead custody sergeant. He managed the custody facility at Hamilton Police Station and he had direct leadership of new police recruits and probationary constables. His professional commitment and high performance earned him the award of Officer of the Year twice in the last five years. Sergeant Grimes was also awarded the Overseas Territories (Police) Medal for meritorious service in the Queen's Birthday Honours this year. Outside of policing, he served as a board member and former chair of the BFA as well as a FIFA referee. He was actively involved in all aspects of football in Bermuda for over 20 years, including youth football, coaching and refereeing. He has represented Bermuda internationally as part of the BFA’s delegations to matches held by the Caribbean Football Union and CONCACAF."  

A funeral service was held for Sergeant Gregory MacArthur Grimes at The Cathedral of the Most Holy Trinity on Church Street in Hamilton at 11am on Wednesday 21st December 2016,  The Cathedral was packed to capacity and overflowing with family, friends, and many of Greg's colleagues who had served alongside him in the Bermuda Police Service.

 
Front cover of funeral programme
Order of Service

Obituary for Greg lovingly submitted by the Family
 
 
Commissioner of Police Michael DeSilva was asked by Greg's family to give a Tribute to him during the Service which we print below in full.  Commissioner DeSilva had access to Greg's personal police file and it says much of Greg character that the Commissioner could directly quote numerous comments  made by Greg's supervisors throughout his 38 years in the Bermuda Police Service.   These comments speak to themselves about the character of this incredibly loyal and committed police officer who devoted his life to the BPS and those who served alongside him.  
 
Tribute to Gregory MacArthur Grimes
from Commissioner of Police
Michael DeSilva
 

It is my pleasure to provide a tribute to  Sergeant Gregory MacArhur Grimes on behalf of the Bermuda Police Service. I have the privilege of having full access to everyone’s personal file, and I have pulled together a few snippets from Greg’s file to assist me today. Bear in mind that Greg served for 38 years, so you can imagine he had a pretty big file. This should only take about 2 or 3 hours, so let’s get started. I think you will recognize some character traits that are as true about Greg today as when they were first written, many years ago. You may or may not recognize some of the names.

 

Gregory MacArthur Grimes submitted application to the Bermuda Police Force at the age of 17 on 27th June 1978.

 

He stood 5’ 8” tall and he weighed 145 lbs. Although his height would remain constant throughout his career, that was possibly the last time he would weigh 145 lbs.

 

Although cadets had been introduced to the Police Force in the late 60’s, Greg’s intake was the first group to attend the Bermuda College as a structured part of the cadet scheme.

 

Syke Smith was the Superintendent in charge of Training. He asked Sgt. Mike Kelly to conduct a home interview. Sgt. Kelly interviewed none other than Mr. Robert Horton, of The Berkeley Institute.

 

Horton: “Steady and willing worker, gets along well with everyone around him. Very good student and he does well academically.”

 

Recognizing talent, Commissioner “Nobby” Clark hired Greg immediately, and he started his police career as a police cadet along with Christopher Goggins on Monday 28th August 1978. He received a salary of $5,621 per annum, and Sgt. Alan Bissell wrote to him that day to inform him that his Group Life Insurance payment was due. It was $2.08 per month!

 

One year later Sgt. Steve Petty nominated Greg for Cadet of the Year. “He has been diligent in his studies, and he has improved in all areas across a heavy workload of subjects. He impresses me with his open and frank discussions, and his mature and capable manner. He is always willing to help and assist other cadets where he can.” The nomination was endorsed by Insp. Barry Meade, Superintendent Harvey, and Deputy Commissioner Fred Bean.

 

Cadet Grimes attended Outward Bound in Aberdovey, Wales in July/August 1980. His course report read, “He knows when seriousness and hard work are necessary, and he always remains in good humour and provides much group encouragement and entertainment.”

 

Cadet Grimes was appointed as Constable 475 Grimes on 20th October 1980 along with fellow Cadets Andrea Durrant, Sheldon Fox, Edward Lightbourne, Leonard Simons, Roxine Simons, B.T. Smith, and Gary Young. The new constables received $12,489 per annum, although the group insurance remained at $2.08 per month.

 

They attended Basic Training Course #28 between October 1980 and January 1981. Greg placed 3rd overall out of 17 recruits. Sgt. A.J. Smith described Greg as “An enthusiastic young man with a good attitude. He is a hard, conscientious worker who needs minimum supervision. He was a contender for the Baton-of-Honour, and he will make a first class police officer.”

 

Deputy Commissioner  Fred “Penny” Bean remarked that Greg was a very promising recruit who had done well, and he acknowledged the tragedy that Greg had to attend the training course while his mother was terminally ill. Sadly, she died one month after the training course graduated.

 

Greg was posted to the Eastern Division after graduation. Many of you will know that the Eastern Division is at the opposite end of God’s Country, which is, of course, Somerset!

 

Early assessments were positive: May 1982  - Sgt. Steve Dunleavy rated Greg A and B, and O for Service relationships. "Keen to learn, gets on well with everyone, and his conduct is excellent."

 

PC Grimes attended Continuation Training Course #13 Feb/Mar 1983. Insp. Alan Bissell: "Gained a lot of confidence since Basic Training. Hard working, obtained good results, and made an impression on the staff. He has much to offer." COP Bean: Quote: "Interesting!" Senior officers back then were men of very few words.

 

Back in the Eastern Division, April 1983, Sgt. Ronnie Boggan: "Always smart and punctual. Work is constantly improving and reports are of a good standard. He is a popular member of the Division."

 

Later that month Greg failed his first driving course. Supt. Gerry Harvey: "He should not be discouraged. He had a basic understanding of the system, but he has a lack of driving experience. He should be afforded another chance in the near future." In May 1985 PC Grimes returned and passed the course.

 

Annual assessment October 1984, C/Insp. Jerry James: "Always clean and tidy, however, he is a bit overweight." Told you! "Pleasant-natured and dependable, he works with minimum supervision. He impresses supervisors with his vitality, and his workload is above average.”

 

His impressed supervisors sent him on attachment to CID in December 1984. Jan 1985, Letter of appreciation for an investigation from Dr. Robert Steele of Endsmeet Animal Hospital in Devonshire.

 

At the end of his CID attachment, DS Steve Shaw, "I found this officer to be keen, and he was willing to tackle anything. He has sound local knowledge and he gave a very satisfactory performance all around."

 

In February 1985, Greg passed the Sergeant's exam, after only 4 years out of training school. An impressive achievement by anyone’s standards.

 

Back in the Eastern Division, annual assessment September 1985. Over 31 years ago, but see if you recognize anything. Sgt. Dunleavy: "He plays commercial league cricket and he is getting involved in refereeing the local soccer league. He is always on time and smartly turned out. He enjoys most tasks that he is given, and he doesn't complain about the ones he dislikes. He is a popular member of the watch, and he organizes social functions to boost the team's spirit. He is a keen worker and he does not tolerate laziness or idleness from other watch members. His workload is the highest on the Watch. He is basically a shy person, but when needed he lacks no aggression. He is not verbally or physically pushed around by anyone. He is an active member of the St. George's Police Club Committee, and he showed up three times off duty and painted the club, when none of the other members attended.”

 

You could have written that report this year.

 

In October 1985, COP Bean, for some reason, thought that Greg would do well in Central Parishes, given his recent success on the promotion exam. In a shocking, yet cunning move, Supt. Harvey: "Sir, respectfully, this officer is unable to ride motorcycles." And in another stellar move, Supt. Andy Birmingham scooped up the available Constable Grimes, and sent him to Special Branch in July 1986.

 

COP Bean wrote in 1990, "His motivation and sense of purpose are clearly evident."

But apparently not evident enough to actually promote him. So that honour fell to COP Clive Donald who promoted Greg to Sergeant on 18th April 1991.

 

April 1992, D/Insp. Oliver Bain: "DS Grimes supervises his men with quiet efficiency, and his management style has enhanced the smooth relationship with the various agencies at the airport." If you knew Oliver Bain, “smooth” featured heavily in his vocabulary.

 

June 1995, DI Foster Burke: "DS Grimes has completed another good year of tireless work where he is always willing to go the extra mile whenever needed.

 

While in SB, Greg received several Letters of Good Work including:

 

  • April 1991: Steve Vogelhaupt of the US Customs Service
  • June 1991: Roger Robinson of Warner Lambert (company that provided private jet service airport)
  • April 1994: AJ Proctor, Deputy Captain of P&O Steam Company
  • March 1998: Jack Warner, President of CONCACAF
  • Perhaps the most notable: August 1995: Madeline Albright (US Representative to the UN, later first female Secretary of State in 1997) "Your professionalism and courtesy are a credit to you and your department. It was a pleasure working with you, and I hope we have the opportunity to do so again."

In his file, from 2000 on, lots of representative leave for CONCACAF, BFA and FIFA: Trinidad, Cuba, US, Canada, Switzerland.

 

By 2005 found his way back to uniform duties. In May of that year, Inspector Martin Weekes: “Sgt. Grimes is a shining example of how an experienced Station Sergeant can pull together a Watch and have them produce good results under difficult circumstances. The BPS needs more supervisors like Sgt. Grimes.” (AIN’T THAT THE TRUTH?) Sgt. Grimes wrote: “I agree with Insp. Weekes.” A man of few words. He should have been a senior officer.

 

In February 2007, Sgt. Grimes was the subject of a written Work Performance Log WPL). It is the only time in my 31 years of service that I have seen a junior officer submit a WPL for a senior officer. PC Earl Caisey: “Sgt. Grimes is a leader. He influences the lives of all under his charge, and even those senior to him. Sgt. Grimes promotes teamwork and he is never too busy to assist the constables who need help to update the computer or prepare court files. He has set the mark of high standards for other station sergeants to follow, and he demonstrates excellence in his job. Sgt. Grimes is an asset to the Watch, to senior officers, and to the BPS. He sets the pace, and he is a true leader.”

 

In the very last appraisal that Greg would ever receive, April 2016 Inspector Peter Stableford: “As usual, Sgt. Grimes continues to exemplify the very best in his duties, and he provides an example to all of us. We rely on him to perform a vital role to the highest of standards.”

 

And the appraisals continue along the same lines: Key Words:  “Efficient, enthusiastic, steady, confident, team player, team leader, professional, dedicated, compassionate, high standards, caring.”

 

That is a summary of 38 years of police commentary on Sgt. Gregory Grimes. And now I’d like to share what I wrote about Greg. In May of 2015, I submitted an application to the Foreign and Commonwealth Office through Government House in Bermuda. In part, the application read:

 

“Sergeant Grimes is highly regarded in the BPS as an exemplary, compassionate and energetic supervisor. He provides model leadership to his staff, inspires positive morale, and delivers professional coaching and mentoring to junior staff. He has gained a reputation as a “steady hand at the wheel,” and his professional commitment and high performance has earned him the award of Officer of the Year twice in the last five years.”

 

“Sergeant Grimes is regarded as highly competent in the custody suite and he is considered to be the most experienced and capable custody sergeant serving in the BPS. His leadership has made a significant difference to the organisation by helping to provide a smooth, trouble-free transition to our new custody facility. His professional manner and excellent skill sets have helped the BPS navigate through a sea-change brought on by legislative amendments, while protecting the professional performance and reputation of the BPS in the area of custody and detention.  Sergeant Grimes’ service to policing in Bermuda has been meritorious and deserving of recognition and it is my honour to make this recommendation.”

 

I am pleased to report that Sgt. Grimes was awarded the Overseas Territories (Police) Medal for Meritorious Service in the Queen’s Birthday Honours, 2016. And he was absolutely most deserving of the award.  When I called to congratulate him, he said, QUOTE: “Thanks, Chief.” And he really meant it.

 

To Judith, Barbara, Rev. Rodney, Calsworth, and Stephen, to all the nieces and nephews, and to the entire Greg Grimes family, on behalf of my senior colleagues, and all the officers, staff, and cadets of the Bermuda Police Service and the Bermuda Reserve Police, I offer our sincere condolences. You are in our thoughts and prayers as you cope with this untimely and sad loss. And I would like to thank you for sharing Greg with us, for his entire adult life and some of his teenage years. He has touched hundreds of lives inside the police and throughout the community, and Bermuda has been the beneficiary of his life-long commitment to public service.

 

In closing, I offer the words of Henry Van Dyke, an American author who wrote stories, poems and liturgy around the turn of the 20th century:

“Time is too slow for those who wait,

Too swift for those who fear,

Too long for those who grieve,

Too short for those who rejoice,

But for those who love, time is Eternity.”

_____________________________

 

The next tribute was written by Inspector Charlene Thompson who unfortunately was off Island when her longtime friend passed away. It was read by Sergeant Devon Saints 

 

Tribute to PS 475 Gregory Grimes from Inspector 908 Charlene Thompson
To the family, loved ones, friends, colleagues and the members of Friends of Distinction of Gregory Grimes, I send my deepest codolences, and prayers for comfort during this time.  I am sorry I could not be there to attend his home going service.
 
Twenty two years ago I met Gregory as a new officer with the Bermuda Police Service, and instantly we had a connection. Gregory was my dearest friend, confidante, supporter, the one I could laugh with, be myself with and voice of reason.
 
On Wednesday 14th December 2016, as we do on a weekly basis, unless one of us was off island, Gregory and I met for our weekly breakfast. I was running five minutes late and messaged him to let him know, as always he responded saying, “That’s okay beautiful, I am just parking.” I arrived at 9:35am, and spent the next hour and half talking about anything, and everything as we usually did. We also discussed plans for my 50th birthday next year and how we were going to celebrate, of course going on a cruise was the winner.
 
 
Had I known this would be the last breakfast with him or time alone, would the conversation had been any different, I don’t think so. You see, Gregory and I made a pack a long time ago to tell each other how we felt about one another, while we had the chance. So every day either via what’s app, in person or on the phone, we expressed to each other our gratitude for our friendhip, I was his beautiful or gorgeous, and he was my dearest friend. We did not let a day go by without expressing how we felt, which included letting each other know we loved each other at the end of our conversations. In fact that day after breakfast, he left to go towards Front Street to his car, and I went towards Reid Street to mine I said, “I love you, will stop by tomorrow when your working for a hug before I leave on Friday”, he responded, “You better, I love you too beautiful.”
 
Two months ago Gregory gave me a card to let me know how he felt about our friendship, something he would do randomly and often, he was the best at knowing just the right time to send them. I pulled out that card and read the words again on Thursday 15th December after receiving the call that he had passed, and the words he gave to me is how I feel and I know all of you feel about him today, they went like this;
 
You just can’t imagine how much I miss you sometimes! Oh, I know you’re not in Timbuktu or anything, but there are times when not just “any” friend will do – times when I want you to be right here, right now to confide in, laugh with, and talk to. It’s amazing how often I’ll wonder what you’d think about something or what you’d advise me to do in certain situations. I’ll see something and just know that nobody else would think it’s funny...except you. I guess what I want you to know is that I feel closer to you than many other people I see every day. That just a fact. And I thought it might make you feel good to know how very important (as in vital) you are in my life.
 
My dearest friend Gregory, I feel the same way about you yesterday, today and forever. We all need someone we can just be with, plans or no plans. We need someone we can really trust – who is quick to listen, quck to laugh, quick to think the best of us – someone who makes every minute a little bit richer just by being there with us. I am grateful for the easy understanding we had between us, for the times we spent together, and especially for the way we could simply be ourselves together. These words Gregory expressed to me the week prior to his passing, at our breakfast together.
 
Missing you so much my friend, I remember people always saying, “When God made you, he broke the mold”, they didn’t get any better than you my friend, you were it, you were the real deal. Loving, kind, selfless, caring, giving, always making sure everyone around you was smiiling and happy.
 
You were the same person no matter what life tossed at you, every single day.  You valued, loved and cherished your family, friends, and colleagues. Mentoring and guiding new officers in the BPS was what you did best, and what you loved doing. Any officer worth their weight in gold, was mentored/guided or sought out advice from Sgt. Grimes.
You were a great supporter of charity and giving back, and if  there was a way you could help out you always did
. Someone said the other day, they could always count on you to buy a ticket to support fund raisers for youth football, if there was a potluck, they would have a plate put aside for you, because they knew you always showed up to support. That’s just a big part of who you were, and who I will miss dearly. 
 
God chose to call you home, he knows our coming in and going out, and every day in between. We didn’t know you were going to leave us, but I am comforted in knowing that,  on that faithful day, when God say’s, well done my good and faithful servant, he will be referring to you my dearest friend,  Until we see each other agin.....
 
Love you always,
Your beautiful/gorgeous
 
There were many more tributes paid to Greg including those from the Minister of National Security, Jeffrey Baron, who was himself a former police officer, President Mark Wade of the Bermuda Football Association, Vice President Ronue Cann of the Bermuda Referess Association, and Senior Magistrate Juan Wolffe on behalf of the Magistrates Court.
 
Perhaps one of them Most touching moments of the service was the following tributes paid to Greg by the members of "B" Watch
 

B Watch Tributes for Sgt 475 Grimes

PC 2494 Raisá Tuzo

It's hard to put into words the impact that '475' has had on me since I joined the Bermuda Police Service. Whether by some witty remark, an inside joke or being a helping hand, Sergeant Gregory Grimes found a way to impact every day.

He was a gentleman, a giant...and a wealth of knowledge; always on hand to guide and groom whomever he came into contact with. He was the kind of supervisor that could reprimand you one minute, and love you up the very next. There was something about him that let you know every word he said was in an effort to make you better. You could not help but respect him, and as a result of having known him, I'm a better person and a better police officer.

The custody area of Hamilton Police Station and the B-Watch Family will never be the same again, as his absence has left a permanent void.

I will cherish the memories that I have with Sergeant Grimes forever, and I will miss delivering his daily cup of coffee, or having to hear his mouth in the event he didn't get it.

Thank you for the lessons, but more importantly, for the laughter '475'. You will always be friend, and more importantly my sergeant, in this life and the next... It was truly an honor to have known him, and I thank your family for sharing you with us.


PC 2490 Simons

Although my time with Sgt. Grimes was devastatingly cut short, the few years I had to work with him and got to know him were nothing short of admirable. Before you knew Sgt. Grimes, some may have thought that he was quiet and to himself, which to some degree was true as he was a very private person. Some may have even thought he was a bit harsh due to his no nonsense ways of dealing with situations. However, to know Sgt. Grimes was to truly love him and once you did there was no way you could not be drawn to him.

Sgt. Grimes was one of my first sergeants when I joined the Bermuda Police Service and how blessed was I to have him. He ruled “His” custody suite with an iron fist and man I tell you he did not play any games or take any slack inside those walls. It didn’t matter whether you were an officer or a detainee, you knew to come correct when he was sitting behind that desk.

Working in custody will never be the same anymore without him. If it was one place I dreaded working it was custody but Sgt Grimes always made it a little easier. I could guarantee almost every time I worked back there I’d see him with our work roster out and an airline website up on his screen trying to figure out when he could get off this island again. I’d say to him, “Where you’re going now Sgt?” and he’d respond, “What you mean? I can’t stay round here too long.” Whether it was him planning his next vacation or his sarcastic remarks or his funny stories, he always made working in custody a bit more tolerable.

Sgt. Grimes was always willing to help every and anyone who asked and he looked out for all especially those that were on his watch. I could always go to him for anything. Even though he always gave me that “what you want now” look, I knew it was out of good fun and he never hesitated to give me his best advice or point me in the right direction when he was unsure.

As time went on I learned of his retirement, I was deeply upset by it. I would tell him all the time “you can’t just leave me here” and he’d always look at me like “please Simons, I’m out of here”. Little did I know that he was planning to come back and when he announced it at his surprise retirement dinner, I could not be any happier.

I remember thinking, “Sgt. Grimes never comes to have a drink with us after work” or “I never see Sgt. Grimes at the PRC”. Until one night I walked in there and saw him sitting next to the infamous domino table with a drink in hand. Well, wasn’t I completely surprised! I remember asking him, “What you’re doing up here?” and he chuckled and retorted the same.

From that point on I never had to question where Sgt. Grimes was again. Whether it was with the watch or just him, PC Homer and myself, I could count on some ‘chill time’ with Sgt. Grimes outside of work at PRC and I knew exactly which chair I would find him in.

Sgt. Grimes, although I did not get to spend as much time with you as I would have liked, my promise to you is to use the knowledge that you instilled in me as a foundation to which I will use to build the rest of my career on. You’re going to be a huge miss to all, especially myself and the B Watch (the best watch of course) team members.

Whether it was your quick whit or your infamous sayings such as, ‘What de rass am I hearing’ or ‘These ain’t mars bars you know’, the watch and the service as a whole will not be the same without you. You were truly as great as they come and for that I genuinely and whole-heartedly appreciate you. You will never be forgotten.

Sleep in Peace Sir 475 Gregory Grimes.

Love always.

 

PC2488 Scotton

Just wanted to share my thoughts on Sergeant Grimes.

When I started out with B watch nearly three years ago I can remember Sergeant Grimes being the hard to please custody sergeant, quick to point out the mistakes of us young constables.  He was untouchable, almost intimidating, but I quickly learned that the only reason Grimes was hard on us was because he wanted us to succeed.  He was a wealth of knowledge, and with that knowledge he wanted to mould the next generation of officers to be good police men and women, just as he was.  If I ever had a question, or found myself a little bit stuck with a piece of work, I always knew Sergeant Grimes’ door would be open, and he would be there to provide me with the answers I needed.

RIP PS Grimes, you will be sorely missed.

 

PC 2467 Outerbridge

Sgt Grimes was an example of true dedication to the service. He never failed to provide assistance or offer advice to anyone who sought it.

What I most respected about him was that he never compromised his standard of work for the opinion or satisfaction of anyone else. As my Sgt I felt confident that all answers and feedback from him were backed with a wealth of experience and care.

Sgt 878 Gibbons

An excellent mentor to us as young brand new officers from day 1 straight thru to continued mentoring and guiding of other Sergeants/Supervisors up to his last working day. Even though he had to repeat himself over and over until you got it right, he did so with pleasure and professionalism. Sgt Grimes always did his best to ensure that you did what was required and expected of you He always carried out his duty and responsibility as an officer with pride.

It was a pleasure to know and work along with him on ‘B’ Watch for such a long time, and to have our last ‘X-mas Dinner’ alongside him just days before his passing. He will be truly missed by us all.

 

Roger Thurab Ex Pc 2318 Trini

Hello everyone the passing of Sergeant Grimes has saddened us all, he was a good Sergeant and an even better friend, he would message me almost on a daily basis and recently after the mild earthquake he was the first to text "just checking to see that you were alright" he said, he will be missed, we may mourn his passing but let us also celebrate his life.

 

Juanita Shaw -  retired Inspector 

This is a tribute to my Sergeant, my "Grimmies', my "Big Guy".  I am so sorry that I am not in Bermuda at this time, but my heart is there.

As I dry my eyes, AGAIN, my heart is heavy at the passing of my Sergeant, my Grimmies, My "Big Guy", a man with a beautiful heart and spirit.

I, along with many others, cannot find the words to comfort any of us at this shocking and sorrowful time.

Just know that as we muddle through the pain, we can remember all the years, the wonderful times we had together on C Watch as team-mates, as confidants.  The good times we shared, in the midst of enforcing the law and protecting Bermuda, will never be forgotten.

Sooooooooooooooo, let's give FOUR cheers for Sergeant Grimes ... yes FOUR cheers (smile).

Hip Hip Hooray

Hip Hip Hooray

Hip Hip Hooray

Hip Hip Hooray

We love you Sgt. Grimmie, and my "Big Guy".  Love to you all, and yes, it's from "MOMMY 1"

 

Tribute To Serge

Let me take this opportunity to tell the happiest, saddest story that ends in “Happily Ever After”.

It all began June 1999, when I PC 2009 Marlon Cann, became one of the ‘B’ Watch Rookies under the leadership of PS 475 Grimes and others. Sergeant Grimes and I hit it off immediately and he became Serge and I, Mi. Now, only my close friends and family call me Mi, so not only did we become friends we grew to become family.

Serge moulded, guided, pushed and protected me during my first years of policing, as a good leader does.  In May 2000, I requested the day off to deal with something personal. When I returned to work the next day, Serge said, “I signed you up for a driving course”.  My response was, “Why did you do that? You know I’m not in the frame of mind to attend driving school”. With his calm, cool, collected self, Serge said, “You can do it and you’re going. By the way you start on Monday”.  Needless to say, I was angry with him but I did as I was instructed and attended driving school; after all Serge, would not steer me wrong.

You see, back then in driving school, you got one chance to fail anything after that you were kicked out if you failed anything else. So, off I go and low and behold on my first day, there was a test and I failed.  I called and told him about it, naturally upset.  He told me, “Calm down, you will retake it and you’re going to be alright”.  True to form Serge was right.  Not only did I pass the test, I then aced my driver training course with the highest scores. I continued in driver training with response and aced that too.  On my return to the watch Serge said, “See I told you, you can do it, GREAT JOB!!”

‘B’ Watch central grew into one big happy family in the truest sense of the word. Just like family, we were always doing something together. Friday nights, Spring Garden, Sunday nights The Beach, bowling, mini golf, scavenger hunts and just simple get togethers.  Serge was front and centre for every event.  After Serge sampled my cooking I became the Watch Cook. It became a staple for me to cook on holidays when ’B’ Watch worked; Cup Match, New Year’s Eve and Good Friday. Serge would say, “Plan a menu and tell me what you need”.

Several of the ladies on ‘B’ Central Watch celebrated their birthdays in the months of November and December; Connie, Denise, Cheryl, Marlon and Nicolle.  Serge decided he would help us celebrate. Linda and Litanya were also included as they celebrated birthdays during the period and Serge wanted one big celebration.  This tradition continued for years.

Over the years, Serge became my listening ear, my shoulder to lean and cry on. Not only was he the best Sergeant ever, he was my friend; one of my very good friends. 

I’ll never forget the day he told me and insisted that I call him Greg or Gregory and my response was, “Ok Serge”.  I have never called him anything but Sergeant Grimes or “Serge”.  I respected him too much as a leader and most of all a person, that I couldn’t bring myself to address him on a first name basis.

One day in 2003 I had a conversation with him about me transferring to CID to get more experience. Just like in a family unit, even though Serge really didn’t want me to leave he knew what it would mean for my growth and progression and soon after my request was granted and I moved on. 

I always made it a point to visit Serge and we would have a pow-wow whether on or off the job.  On occasions, I would continue to bring him meals and baked goods especially on those same holidays.  Our bond remained strong. Serge even made the trip to Barbados to attend my wedding.

About three weeks ago, we were in the custody area and he was telling the story to other officer’s present, of the time he had an earache and I asked if he had been to the doctor and he told me no, but he had some drops.  I insisted that he see a doctor as I felt it was probably more than just an earache. I nagged and nagged him throughout the night; you all know what a nagging woman is like.  At some point during the night he asked me to put the drops in his ear and I told him yes but only if he goes to the hospital thereafter. True to his word he went to the hospital and was admitted, where he remained for two weeks.  He told the other officer’s only a true friend would continue to nag you when they see something is wrong and I’m forever grateful for my friend.

After Serge informed me of his health problems he didn’t get as many baked goods but he did let his feelings be known about the few times I wasn’t on island for Good Friday and didn’t make hot cross buns and fishcakes; imagine that!!!  A week ago, I baked some chocolate chip cookies. I hadn’t baked since August.  I put four (4) cookies in a sandwich bag and gave them to Serge.  I said, “I know you’re not supposed to have them so promise me just one (1) a day”.  He said, “It’s ok Mi, I got this. I will enjoy them”.

This is the part of the story that gets sad. When I was reading my work email about Serge and his condition I couldn’t believe what I was reading. A few curse words came out of my mouth which is unusual for me and the tears started.  When I got that phone at 4:26 the next morning, my world stopped, my heart ached as it broke. Not only did I lose my Serge, but I lost my very dear friend.  I would miss his daily messages that are still on my phone.

And even through the disbelief, hurt and dismay, I had to remind myself that God has gained an Angel; and that loving, caring, trust worthy, helpful, selfless, confidant, and Gentle Giant of a Man was now resting in eternal peace. He lived his life his way and rightfully so, slipped into a place of no pain, restrictions or suffering.  He walked his walk with all the dignity and grace of a man of his stature and at the end of the chapter, when his story was over; he answered God’s call and went home to his “Happily Ever After.”

Sleep in Peace Serge, you may be gone, but never forgotten,

Love Always and Forever Mi. 

PC 2009  Marlon Cann

 

You can also find a tribute to Greg on our Facebook page at  https://www.facebook.com/BDAExPolice/photos/pb.251987511677376.-2207520000.1481837765./620049448204512/?type=3&theater 

Editors note  -    We plan to add a series of photos to this Hall of Fame article on Greg, and will post them as they are received.

Inspector Sean Sheehan

 

Served from 1957 - 1978

Inspector Sean Sheehan
 

Inspector Sean Sheehan was one of those rare human beings who became a legend in his own lifetime.  An Irishman through and through, he joined the Bermuda Police Force in February 1957 after serving in the Irish Constabulary (The Garda) for 3 years in Dublin.

Constable Sean Sheehan issues a ticket while serving in The Garda
 

Sean arrived on the same plane as Peter Stubbs and Taffy Alder and for their first year or so in Bermuda they were housed in the former staff quarters behind the old Hamiltonian Hotel  which had burned to the ground in 1955. The staff quarters were located on Victoria Street at the junction with Washington Street in Hamilton, and according to Peter Stubbs, they were in terrible condition with holes in the room doors, missing window panes and dreadful furniture.

Sean’s first posting was to Central Division on the beat in Hamilton. This was at a time when expatriate officers recruited in the U.K with no previous police experience would attend a 3 months Basic Training Course at Mill Meece in Staffordshire before coming out to Bermuda.  Peter Stubbs had just graduated from Mill Meece but Sean, as an experienced officer, would simply have been provided with perhaps a copy of the Road Traffic Act (cars had been prohibited in Bermuda until after the war ended in 1946) and the Hamilton Traffic Ordinances, and would then have hit the streets of Hamilton.  According to Peter, Sean had a “really strong pure Irish accident, difficult to translate but he was without question an excellent policeman”.

Young P.C. Sean Sheehan directing traffic at Heyl's Corner while answering questions
from visitors on pedal cycles.  This is in the days before the birdcage, and at a time when
horse and buggeys and taxis with a surrey on top were a familar sight in Hamilton
 

Within a matter of days both Sean and Peter had bought themselves “Ambassador” motor cycles  -  sold by the Island Trading company on Victoria Street, owned and run by Colonel Sankey.  Sean is photographed below outside the Victoria Street barracks along with his motor cycle. The Triumph in front him is believed to have belonged to George Goddard.

Sean Sheehan stands outside the old barracks on
Victoria Street next to his new Ambassador motor bike
 

The state of the outside of the building appears to match the state of the interiors!

Sean attended a short “refresher course” in June 1958 along with several other recruits from Ireland and a few Bermudians. After just over a year on the beat, Sean was transferred to the Parishes where a police officer needed to be self motivated and would deal with a variety of incidents occurring in his Parish.

P.C. Sean Sheehan (top right) attends a Refresher Course at Prospect
in June 1958.  Can you identify the other officers in this photo?
 

Sean and his fellow single officers were always required to live in Police Barracks so it must have been a huge relief to them when the Duke of Cornwall’s Light Infantry moved out of the Prospect Military barracks  in 1959, at which time the former military buildings were converted to Police Headquarters, Police Club, Traffic Department, Police Training School,  and single men’s quarters.

Coming to Bermuda was no doubt a huge move for Sean but 4th October 1960, was a pivotal day in his police career as he was transferred to the newly formed Cycle Squad set up to combat the growing problem of cycle thefts (stealing or removing cars was almost unheard of in Bermuda) and speeding. 

It was a right of passage for young Bermudians to own an auxiliary cycle -  a 50 cc bike -  when they turned 16 and they would invariably race around the Island at breakneck speeds, that is, until the Cycle Squad was created and the officers in the squad were issued with much more powerful motor cycles.  Teenagers did everything possible to increase the power of their auxiliary cycles, including fitting them with a gear system which was strictly illegal,  but enterprising young lads would fit their bikes with a system controlled by a small “pin” that they could pull out and throw away if they were being chased by the police.

Cyce Squad in its Glory Days
Standing (l-r)  Dick Murphy, Andy Bermingham, Neville Darrell,
Tony Watson, Mike Caulkett, Gary Perinchief, Dick Johnson
Kneeling  -  OIC Sean Sheehan and Geoff Hunt
 
Sean was in his element!  We have no idea if he ever drove a motor cycle or a car in Ireland, but he took to riding in Bermuda like a duck to water!  He was said to be completely fearless and would chase speeders up and down Bermuda’s narrow roads and tracks – and never give up.  To this day (2016) old men talk about those days in the 1950’s and 1960’s when “Sheehan” was a legendary Cycle Squad officer. 

But “Sheehan” also had a great reputation as a fair police officer who treated those he dealt with with respect, although it has also been said that young offenders would often confess to having stolen or removed cycles, or cycle parts,  after one of Sean’s interrogations which would always be lengthy and usually involved being asked to swear on their mother’s grave that they were innocent!  It was also said that Sheehan must not only have kissed but also “hugged” the Blarney Stone” because he sure had the gift of the gab!

Sean spent the next 4 years in Cycle Squad where he was promoted to Sergeant in October 1962.  His investigative skills were clearly evident as he was transferred to C.I.D. in 1964, but a year later he returned as the Sergeant in charge of Cycle Squad until 1966.

Sean's early days in CID
(l-r)  John Cafferkey, Willie McCracken, Bill Sherwood (on attachment
from New Scotland Yard) and Sean Sheehan
Heading out to the Junior Training School at Paget Island - 1965
(l-r)  Bill Bryan, Chris Fludgate, Bill Black and Sgt Sean Sheehan
 

After a 4 year stint in CID from 1966 – 1970 Sean was Sergeant in charge of Central Parishes during which time he was promoted to Inspector in December 1971 and spent time in charge of the Mobile Reserve, then in the Murder Room and CID before spending his latter years of service in Central Division as Inspector at Hamilton Police Station. 

During his service in the Bermuda Police Sean received numerous commendations as follows:-

  • 16 February 1959 - Commendation awarded to Constable Sheehan for zeal and efficiency;  
  • 10 February 1950 - Commendation awarded to Constable Sheehan for zeal and efficiency;  
  • 5 January 1961 -  Commendation awarded to Constable for zeal and efficiency (arresting 39 people involved in 51 cases of cycle removing from 4 Oct - 31 Dec 1960; 
  • 18 August 1964 - Commendation awarded to Detective Sergeant 43 Sheehan for perserverance in investigation of larcenies 
  • 28 January 1965 - Commendation awarded to Detective Sergeant Sheehan for Investigation and Interrogation and being congratulated by His Lordship the Chief Justice. 
  • 28 January 1965 - Commendation awarded to Detective Sergeant 43 Sheehan for persistent and excellent interrogation in a robbery case;
  • June 1966  -  Commendation awarded to Detective Sergeant 43 Sheehan for "zeal and initiative investigating a series of B and E's committed by a gang of juveniles;  
  • 15 April 1968 - Commendation awarded to Detective Sergeant 43 Sheehan for Intelligent appreciation and diligent enquiries;  
  • 24 July 1968 - Commendation awarded to Detective Sergeant 43 Sheehan for zeal and initiative; 
  • 10 April 1969 - Detective Sergeant 43 Sheehan for a thorough investigation in a complicated series of 44 cases of theft and false accounting 
Inspector Sean Sheehan attends Government House to receive his 25 year Long
Service Medal (l-r) Patricia, Sean, Cliona and Aine (complete with their hats!)

 

Throughout his police career Sean was a popular and outgoing officer who socialized with everyone, and it would also be fair to say that he loved to have a drink – or two!

The following photos of believed to have been taken during Sean's retirement "Do" in the Officers Mess at Prospect

Inspector Sean Sheehan receives congratultions from Inspector Peter Stubbs with
Inspector Dave Parson also behind the bar at the Officers Mess, Prospect.
Sean (right) chatting with Detective Chief Inspector
Clive Donald and Inspector Jerry Harvey
 
Following his retirement in 1978, Sean returned to his native Ireland with his wife Pat and their two daughters, Aine and Cliona.   Sadly, Sean passed away in his beloved Ireland in March 2008 after being diagnosed with prostate cancer.   surrounded by his loving family. His daughter, Aine, says that he retained his sense of humour and twinkle in his eye throughout his illness.   Aine returned to Bermuda on vacation in 2013 to meet up with old friends, and during her visit she promised faithfully to write a tribute to her father for our website.
Aine meets up with Patsy and Dave Cook during her visit to Bermuda in 2013
We were delighted to receive the following from Aine in early April 2016.
 

Tribute to Sean Sheehan by Patricia, Cliona Aine Sheehan

Sean Sheehan - could he be related to Paul Newman?!
 

Sean (official name John Gerrard) Sheehan was the first born child of Bridget and Denis Sheehan on the 22nd October 1933  in Caherciveen, Co. Kerry.  He was educated in Caherciveen to the age of 18 and did the equivalent of todays Leaving Certificate.  Whilst in junior school the head teacher realising that Sean’s strengths did not lie in mathematics asked him to tutor the younger children in the Irish language.  Sean was a fluent Irish speaker – both ancient and modern. 

Young Sean Sheehan (middle back row) with his family in Kerry circa 1947
 

Once Sean graduated he decided it was time to explore the world, so he packed his bags and went to his aunt’s in London, England. Believe it or not he got a job in a Glass factory, which was to the amazement of some. Following this job Sean never could stand the sound of breaking glass!  During his time in London Sean got to see the Queen of England crowned on June 2nd 1953. 

It was just after this that his father, Denis, contacted him to return home to apply for the Garda as they were recruiting. He had always been told that the Garda was an excellent career choice so he travelled back to Ireland and joined the Garda on 26th May 1954 and was stationed in Rathmines, Dublin. 

P.C. Sean Sheehan pounds the beat
in Lower Rathmines, Dublin
 

Life changed when he was talked into buying a ticket for a Charity Dance in the Four Provence Dance Hall (Four Pros – stands for Ulster, Lenster, Connaght and Munster). Here he asked a young Patricia Kelly to dance.... and anyone who knows Sean Sheehan, knows he has two or three left feet.  Amazingly, even though she could barely understand him (with that beautiful Kerry accent) and the fact that he couldn’t dance, Patricia agreed to see him for a date the next week.

If Patricia had any doubts, these were alleviated when she turned up an hour and a half late and he was still there waiting patiently with a large bunch of flowers – a theme that would recur during their long and very happy marriage. 

Soon after this, Sean started to consider his future and felt there were no incentives to stay in the Garda as the pay was very low.  So low he had to buy his own bicycle and he went up to the mountains on his days off to cut turf to earn extra money.  So Sean decided to apply for two jobs: a job with the Railways in Africa; or the Bermuda Police Force.  Sean got an interview for both jobs in London.  Patricia lent him the £5 to get him to London!  Sean was offered both jobs so he decided to toss a coin to make his decision and Bermuda won!  Thank goodness!!

Sean resigned from the Garda in early February 1957 and flew over to Bermuda on 22nd February to start his new life with the Bermuda Police, living in the barracks on Victoria Street  in Hamilton just behind where City Hall is now located.

Young Patricia Kelly before she flew to Bermuda to marry Sean
 
He continued to write to Patricia and after asking her Mother and Father for her hand in marriage, Patricia agreed to marry Sean and arrived in Bermuda by ship a year and a day later.  Before she left for Bermuda Patricia agreed to go and meet Sean’s parents in Caherciveen.  She went by train from Dublin on the old train track that was carved through the mountain which can still be seen from the road today.  Sean’s parents met her in the “car” -  a pony and trap - and they whisked her off to Sean’s family home.  Patricia knew when she met Sean’s family she had made a good choice.  They made her feel very welcome and were delighted with Sean’s choice.  Patricia was working in Dublin as a hairdresser, and the Chemist who owned the salon said the match was a great one – the hard working people of the north combined with the brains of the south!  Although Sean always said Patricia was the brains of the outfit!
 

Patricia and Sean were married on the 19th June 1958 in St. Theresa’s Church in Hamilton. Best man - Bill McCormick (http://expobermuda.com/index.php/tan/115-billmccormack) Celine Cafferkey - Matron of Honor and Sandy Powell gave Patricia away. They honeymooned in Somerset and life began for the new couple.

Sean and Patricia are the picture of happiness on their wedding day
 

Their first home was #3 Frog Lane and there were many ‘get togethers’ at Frog Lane.

Patricia and Sean during their early days together in Bermuda
 
Bill Smith (http://expobermuda.com/index.php/tan/54-wsmith) recounts some special moments, especially the occasion of the birth of Sean’s first daughter, Cliona in Ireland. On the issue of the creation of Cycle Squad, Bill recalls,Sean’s first significant role in the police was the ‘Cycle Squad’. “Sean Sheehan, Eric Simpson and yours truly (Bill Smith) became Cycle Squad.  Given a Triumph 500 each, plus a Morris J4 van and an office next door to Traffic at Prospect, the challenge was in place.”  
 
Patricia hugs her beautiful new baby Cliona -  October 1960
 

And here is a quote from someone  who vividly remembers Sgt Sheehan -  “When I was a teenager in the 1960's my peers and I feared Sgt Sean Sheehan. He and his cycle squad members were everywhere all the time it seemed. Although we did such things as have illegal gears in our mopeds (with a 'setup' to immobilise if necessary), speeding and recklessness was something we thought twice about because Sgt Sheehan would invariably show up and catch us. Basically, his high profile presence on the roads kept us honest. None of us wanted our bikes impounded, which happened often if there was even a hint of excessive noise.” Red Onion http://www.limeyinbermuda.com/2005/11/getting_tough_w.html

Bil Smith also mentions the arrest  of an aspiring young actor with a direct connection to Bermuda: “College Weeks were a challenge and one memorable arrest was that of a certain Michael Douglas for "Taking and Driving Away" a livery bike that was not his rental. Talking to his movie actor father, Kirk Douglas, by telephone, it was decided that the youth should not be charged but was to be taken directly to the Airport and told to leave Bermuda.” Michael's mother was a member of the Dill family and was also an actress.

Sean and Pat’s first child, Cliona Eileen, was born in Ireland on the 18th April 1960 and they were blessed with their second daughter Aine (Patricia-Anne) who was born in Bermuda on the 15th January 1965.

 

Sean with his beloved daughters Aine (left) and Cliona (right)
Sean with Aine
Yes, that a beard he's trying to grow!
 

Sean retired in 1978 and he, Patricia, Cliona and Aine returned to Emyvale in Ireland in April 1978.  Sean got a job as regional organiser for the first Census in Ireland for some time.  Patricia went back to do a bit of hairdressing.  Sean went from the Census job to selling sports bags for a family business.  He turned out to be a great salesman as he was too honest to lie about the goods he was selling so it was a good job the bags were well made!  He would travel the country getting orders and would invariably get lost.  It’s a good job Bermuda was so small as a sense of direction wasn’t Sean’s strong point!

Sean surrounded by his family
Top row (l-r)  Cliona, Sean and Stephen
Seated  -  Larena, Patricia, Corena and Cathy
Photo taken at Cathy's Confirmation in Galway
Sean and Patricia and family visit Sean's sister, Aunty Bride, at Ballycarbery Castle
Farm in Kerry which she owns. Click here for a link to Ballycarbery Castle
http://www.theringofkerry.com/ballycarbery-castle
 

Sean’s last job was as caretaker of the local village junior school.  We still meet people today who remember him around the school and all he did in his own time while he was there.  He was well respected and liked in the whole of the village and the surrounds of Emyvale. 

Sean was diagnosed with prostate cancer and died on 2 March 2008.  His last three weeks were spent at home with his whole family around him to care for him.  He was himself (as they say here in Ireland) until the end.  Keeping his sense of humour and the twinkle in his eye.

Sean's Mass Card
 

People still talk about Sean in the village and the respect they held for him was demonstrated during his three day wake and his funeral.

Sean's grandchildren Corena, Cathey, Larena and Stephen
 

We, Sean’s family, miss him everyday.  He was some character!

 

Patricia, Cliona and Aine Sheehan
May 2016

John Van de Weg

 

Served in Bermuda Police 1967 - 1997

Young P.C. John Van de Weg

We were deeply saddened to report that our good friend and former colleague, Retired Sergeant John Van de Weg passed away at the age of 73  on 23rd February  2016, at King Edward Hospital.

A native of Middlesbrough, in England, John had served in the Royal Air Force in Communications before joining the Bermuda Police on 7th July 1967.   He retired in March 1997, after 30 years of service in a variety of departments including Central Division, Prosecutions, Training School, Operations, as OIC Central Parishes, in "A" Department, and later in the newly formed Computer Section.  He had been promoted to Sergeant in September 1976 and was an exceptionally popular officer.

P.C. John Van de Weg on patrol
 

John was an avid sportsman who played tennis and cricket in our Police Teams, but he really excelled as a great rugby player  -  a formidable 2nd row forward - who went on to captain our Police Rugby Team at a time when it was second to none on the Island.  

By coincidence we had recently published a photo of the Police Rugby Team that won the Nicol Shield back in 1973 with John as Captain. For more information about the team and their victory against Teachers Rugby Club that year go to our "Who, Where and When" column headed "How good was this rugby team? It can be found at  http://expobermuda.com/index.php/who-when-where/398-how-good-was-this-rugby-team

Victorious Captain John Van de Weg proudly holds the
Nicol Shield in 1973 surrounded by his teammates
 

In 1976 John was struck down by a severe reaction to a flu vaccination which left him partially paralysed, and from which he never fully recovered despite years of treatment and rehabilitation.   For a man who had been so active on the sports field it must have been devastating for John,  but his strength of character came to the fore and he never complained about his condition. In fact, just the opposite! Fortunately he had the full support of his lovely wife, Mary who met him very shortly after she arrived in Bermuda in 1968 working as a nanny for a Bermudian family.   We understand that their first date was at the PRC.

John and Mary were married in 1970, and they had three children, Simon, Rachel and Nicholas.

John continued his career in the Bermuda Police working for several years in Prosecutions Department and latterly in Operations in the newly formed Computer Section. 

John heads the newly formed Police Computer Section
(l-r) John Skinner, John Van de Weg, Norman Wilson and Esther Trott
 

John was awarded the Colonial Police Medal for Long Service and Good Conduct in July 1985. He retired from the Bermuda Police Service on 2nd March 1997 after serving for 30 years.

Sergeant John Van de Weg and his wife Mary attend Government House
for the presentation of his Long Service Medal - July 1985
 

Never one to stand still for a moment,  John then embarked on a second career in the Crown Prosecutions Office where he was held in the highest regard by all who worked with him.  He finally retired in 2011 at the age of 69.

John had always been a totally devoted father to his three children, supporting them in all of their endeavours and activities, and he was delighted when his son, Simon and wife Sarah  had two daughters,  Eve and Lily,  making him an extremely proud grandfather.

John may not have been able to play sports but he was a great sports fan and loved to keep up with all of his favourite teams. He was, of course, a passionate fan of England's rugby team but was also a great fan of Gareth Edwards and had great admiration for the way Wales played rugby.  He also loved to watch England's cricket team in action and being a "Tyke" through and through John would  enjoy their matches even more if the ever present Yorkshire contingent  were shining.  He always followed the Yorkshire  cricket team and would wax eloquent about the days when Len Hutton, Johnny Wardle, Brian Close and Fred Truman were in their prime.  More recently he followed the rapidly rising career of Joe Root who has already been compared to the great Sir Len Hutton.  Fellow "Tyke", Dave Garland, and John watched just about every sports film they could lay their hands on.

John maintained very close contacts with many of his Police colleagues and fellow sportsmen, both here in Bermuda and abroad.  He and Mary would also often attend our Ex-Police Association functions.

Following John’s passing, Mary and his family held a remembrance reception at the Royal Hamilton Amateur Dinghy Club that was packed as tightly as a rugby scrummage.  Rex Osborne acting as MC and read out tributes to John sent from his family and friends around the world.

Rex Osborne acted as Master of Ceremonies at
the reception held at RHADC
Simon giving eulogy for his father
 

His son Simon took on the onerous task of giving a eulogy and did an exceptional job in doing so.  Simon kindly gave us permission to publish his comments which were as follows:-

Welcoming Remarks
By Simon Van de Weg
 
For those that don’t know me I am Simon, one of John’s three children.

It is my pleasure to welcome you all here this evening and to do my best, on behalf of the family, to speak in remembrance and celebration of John. 

Among us this evening are people who connected with John at various stages and in different ways during his life.  Thank you all for sharing this time with us.

Of John’s family here now is Mary, John’s beloved wife of over 45 years and children Rachel, Nicholas and myself.  Also his cousin Simon, daughters-in-law Sarah and Marilyn, and his greatly adored grandchildren Eve and Lily. 

Unable to attend, but gathering overseas are John’s sisters Elizabeth, Margaret, Susan, brother Henk and special lifetime friends Keith and Judy Staples.

John was never one for ceremony.  He preferred things simple and modest.  So this evening in this casual way we come together to remember the man and his journey through life. 

Remembrance and Celebration

John was born on 2nd March 1942 in Middlesbrough, England.  He was birthed at home and considerably premature and they thought he would not make it through the first night.  He did of course and then grew to become well over 6 foot tall.

Olive, John’s mother was from a long time Yorkshire family.  John’s father, Cornelis, was a Dutchman and when he was young the family moved to the Netherlands where they lived in the Hague.  Some years later they returned and Yorkshire remained a deep love of his always.

Young John Van de Weg 
 

Of his childhood years he spoke fondly.  He was good at all sports but rugby and cricket were his main interests.  His mother’s washing line was always sagging low as she kept up with a steady flow of muddy team kit.  John adored his 3 younger sisters.  He was the man of the house at an early age because his father was often at sea for extended periods.

John with his sister Elizabeth taken in Rotterdam
during the English school holidays
 
Service in the Royal Air Force followed school.  This took John to Asia and adventures on active service in the Gurkha Signals Unit during the Borneo Confrontation.  More than 20 years later a service medal arrived in the post.  The mail in Bermuda has always been a bit slow…

In 1967 John came to Bermuda to join the Police Service (as one of 12 new recruits). 

A motley crew of new recruits fresh off the plane -  July 1967
Smart Graduates of Basic Training Course #9
Top Row (l-r) John Van de Weg, Owen Marsh, Richard "Dick" Saunders,  
Brian Hanney, James "Jimmy" Costello, Peter Irwin
Middle Row - John Balsdon, Malcolm Hall, Ian Ganson, 
Joseph "Ronnie" Boggan, Cyril Plant, Hubert Swan
Seated -  Ian Andrews, Sgt. Barrie Meade, Chief Insp. Roy Chandler, 
Sgt John Cafferky, Sgt Mike Kelly, and Edward Edwards
 

And it was here that John met his wife Mary.  As chance would have it she had seen him at the flagpole on Front Street on her first full day on the island.  He was memorable that day.  He was in uniform and sporting a large bandage across his broken nose.   He had broken it playing rugby the afternoon before – but unwilling to leave the after-match party until the very late hours – he had missed the deadline to report sick and had to work that day. 

No doubt John knew right away that he could never do better than Mary.  Their 46 years of marriage started in 1970.

John and Mary are married at Christchurch, Warwick on 4th July 1970
(l-r)  Best Man Bob Fancourt, John, Mary, Maid of Honour Dale Martin,
Flower Girl Janie, and Rev. Buchanan
 

“Vanders” is how he was known to his colleagues in the Police.  He was exceptionally popular and respected.  In 30 years in the Service he reinvented himself multiple times from policeman to trainer, prosecutor and then computer specialist.  Not content to retire, John continued on to work with the Department of Public Prosecutions. 

During his career he made many friendships and helped a lot of people in different ways.  John would certainly be pleased to see so many of his friends and former colleagues here today. 

John was very well known as a sportsman, playing cricket and rugby for Police.  He particularly loved rugby.  He was proud to have Captained the Police team as they accumulated significant amounts of silverware in the early 1970s.  His fellow “faded blues” recount that he was a powerful player with drive and ability.  He was motivational and ferocious on the field and comfortably laid back off it.   To John the after-match party was as important as the game itself.

Vanders was famous for his half-time "pep talks" and a quick drag! 
 

In 1976 things changed for John when a flu vaccination triggered a severe illness.  It was little understood then and it changed his life dramatically at age 34 and caused complications from then on. 

Such a thing might have made many people cynical and bitter.  But not John.  He had the determination and good humoured resolve to fight back from each set-back and enjoy good times with his wife, children and friends.  These characteristics were remarked on by everyone who knew him. 

But he could not have done it without his wife Mary at his side.  Mary and John dealt with all challenges – and continued over the next 38 years to make a great life for the family.

John was a first class father and husband.  He was an energetic dad and the back garden was regularly the scene of cricket games that continued into darkness.  With his walking stick as a bat he made sure his boys could bowl a good line and length.  

He coordinated high action and memorable birthday parties.  He loved long summer afternoons on the Police Beach with his young family.  He tried never to miss anything and was there for all of Rachel’s ballet and music recitals and covered many miles patrolling the touchline when his sons played rugby.  He was incredibly proud of his children.  When he became a grandfather to Eve and Lily he was over the moon.

After busy days he often would sit outside puffing his pipe in the cool evenings.  He tried painting for a time and was pretty good.   He gave them away to friends when asked.  He even sold a few paintings once when Mary arranged for some to be on display in Triminghams.  He was amused by that.

John with Family and Friends
(l-r) Back row  -  Simon, John, Mary, grand daughter Eve, Nicholas, grand daughter Lily
Front Row  -  Rachel, Simon's wife Sarah, and family friend
Jeffrey Lawrence with Fig the chocolate labrador
 

John’s retirement was shorter than hoped for.  But in just a few years he and Mary managed to get a lot done.  They travelled in Europe, visited Alaska, the Grand Canyon and of course Yorkshire.  They met up with old friends or made friends on the way.

John and Mary in Monument Valley, Navaho Tribal Park,
Arizona/Utah, while on tour of the US Canyonlands
 

John had great support from good friends all along.  His regular lunches with and visits from Ron Beech, Rex Osborne, Peter Duffy, Dave Garland, Steve Dunleavy, Dave Carruthers and others were great for lively conversations on events past and present.

Until just 3 days before he passed away John had been attempting yet another come back.  Right up to the end he would still greet visitors with a shake of his big hand and want to talk about how they were doing.

John will be sorely missed.  He was a big strong man with a kind and gentle soul.  He was admired and respected by many.  He retained his sense of humour and positive outlook despite significant struggles and inspired others to the same.  He was a wonderful father and husband and a loyal friend.

John relaxes with a book in his garden on the bench
presented to him on retirement from the DPP's Office 
 

Thank you all for coming and celebrating John’s life with us.

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